Dirty talk phrases are generally an interesting subject to discuss.  Mainly because the term is often misconstrued to be something that it is not.  A phrase, by definition, is a sentence with two or more words.  This means that a dirty talk phrase is nothing more than a vessel for a suggestion, some having more of an impact than others.

This is opposed to the dirty talk phrases school of thought that says “here’s a bunch of lines to say” which usually have little to no direction or intention behind them.  If you don’t know WHY you’re saying something, its better off you don’t say it.  That usually goes for everything.

Real, hard-hitting dirty talk phrases can be broken down into a series of categories.  Here’s a few examples of dirty talk phrase categories you may find yourself using:

1: Dirty Talking Questions

Asking your man questions about what he likes and wants is a great place to start.  “You like that?”, “You like when I do this?”, “will you XXX me?”, “Do you want me to X?” etc.  Asking questions is your way of getting invaluable feedback from your man.  I mean, he’s the one who you need to please, right?  Get your facts straight from the source.

2: Kinky Sex Confessions

Confessing to your man what YOU want him to do to you, what you like doing to him, and what secret fantasies you have is a HUGE turn on.  “I want you to X me”, “I love when you X like that”, “I need to X your X right now”.  Tell him how you feel and what you want to do about it and I promise his ears will perk up a bit.  Its just like dropping hits about anything else you may subtlety request…just…this time with a little more spice

3: Consensual Commentary

These types of dirty talk phrases are best during the actual act of sex, in that you literally commentate what’s going on as if you were telling him to do it.  Say he’s having sex with you.  You would say things along the lines of “Yeah, f*ck that pussy” or “Stick it in me harder” etc.  The idea is that as he’s doing it, you’re essentially telling him to do it…reminding his brain that he’s ACTUALLY doing it and making him focus on you (the one he’s doing it to).

These are just a few examples of dirty talk phrases that actually make sense in terms of getting results.  The point of using these dirty talk phrases is to engage his mind into the moment so he enjoys YOU and not some fantasy in his mind.  (Hint – If a guy ever asked you directly to talk dirty to him, it’s usually because he has a lot of fantasies that you are competing with).

Learning how to talk dirty with these types of dirty talk phrases isn’t nearly as intimidating as you may think, especially when there’s a lot of great resources that teach women how to talk dirty to men.

Some of the resources give you the “big sister” approach to dirty talk.  While this may seem like a fair shake, it’s not the real nitty-gritty stuff that men REALLY lust after, and most certainly want to hear.

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Stay Dirty,
Devian Day

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